As teachers, we have a responsibility to children to teach them about these difficult, controversial issues. Teaching young children about homosexuality and giving it validation reduces bullying later in school years, as well as tells homosexual children that they are okay just the way they are. Perhaps, if homosexuality education had occurred early in the lives of children we learned about who had committed suicide, they would still be alive today.
Because of the ramifications of homophobia on youth today, homosexuality is a controversial issue, and it will be until appropriate measures are taken in education. If we can begin teaching young children, with books like Heather Has Two Mommies, and getting them talking about their thoughts and feelings early, perhaps in ten or twenty years, homosexuality will not be a controversial issue. If everyone is committed to opening the doors of communication and teaching all children to treat all people with respect, then one day, teenagers will not be committing suicide because they're bullied for being gay.
According to the reading on AIDS we had, kids want more information about HIV and AIDS, and the best way to get them that reliably is to educate them in the schools. However, even with education, it was shown that behaviors don't change. Now, personally, I'm not sure what to do about this, as I was always a good kid. I received a moderate education in AIDS and STD's, I suppose, but I was also pretty clueless, and just didn't date. Not being in the public schools, or having kids of my own, I don't really have anything to compare our reading to. I do know that my children will learn about sex from an early age, as we live on a farm, and STD/AIDS/HIV education will have to be part of that. I do think that meaningful conversation is an important part of such education, and that was something that I never got in schools. We had the lecture, watched a movie, and probably had a reading from a textbook, but conversations were not part of the equation. Perhaps that is the missing ingredient that will help lead to behavioral changes in at-risk youth and individuals.
Here in Washington State, school districts have two options about AIDS education. They can either use the state's KNOW curriculum, or another curriculum that has been reviewed by the state. While the KNOW curriculum has a document for 5th and 6th grade (here) but nothing younger, it does state in that document that in grades K-3rd, children should be taught to avoid needles found on the playground or elsewhere and to not touch others' blood. They're also supposed to be told that HIV and AIDS is a very serious disease that affects some adults and teenagers, but that young children rarely get it. They also don't have to worry about playing with kids whose parents have it, or those few children that have it themselves. This is good, but I think the two should be connected - children should be told not to touch other peoples' blood because HIV is transmitted through blood, but that's why it's okay to play with kids whose parents have HIV - it can't be spread by coughing or touching, like a cold can be.
Again, I don't have any experience
teaching these topics to my students, and students don't exactly walk
in to their lessons and ask about AIDS. However, I know my own
children will, and I've always felt that every question of every
child deserves, if not an outright answer, at very least a response.
I may not have all the answers, but I can certainly help my children
to find the answers, and we can discuss them together as a family,
about what they mean. I am also grateful that I have homosexual
friends, so my children can learn from an early age that families
come in all sorts of packages.
Another topic that I believe falls into the category of controversial is religious education in public schools. Now, obviously, private schools can do what they like on religion, and many parents choose to send their children to Catholic or Protestant private schools, in which prayer or mass are a daily part of the school routine. But what about in public schools? When I was in high school, one of my favorite classes was Religion and Philosophy. It was a one semester course, in which we discussed multiple types of philosophies and multiple religions. I felt this was a valuable use of my time and education, allowing me to thoughtfully consider other viewpoints. I feel that I am a much more considerate and tolerant person because I know a little about other religions.
As a non-Christian, I am definitely in favor of the separation of church and state, and would protest if prayer or Christian worship, or any worship, were required in public schools. But I would like to see even more education about religions in public schools, and not just the mainstream ones. This New York Times article, Universal Faith, explores the idea of "dual purpose," that is, things that can be used for secular and religious purposes. They discuss installing foot baths in a Michigan high school so Muslim students can wash their feet before their prayers. However, these foot baths are to be functional, utilitarian foot baths that anyone can use, unlike the "ornate ablution fountains like those outside mosques." The article claims that this is an example of dual purpose, but I don't think so. How many times did you wash your feet, in the middle of the school day, in high school? I never did.
Rather than looking for dual purpose, I think it comes down to equal accommodations. Accommodations can be made for religions, like the foot baths, if every religion is able to claim accommodations. And this is where I think we run into the problem, because our government can't decide to only endorse a few religions, or that certain ones don't count. If just one student wanted an accommodation for their obscure religion, if any accommodations are given for any religions, than that student has to be granted theirs.
So, while I think religions should definitely be taught about in schools, "Teaching religious ideas as an academic subject can, of course, be a prime example of dual use, since such ideas may be studied critically without embracing them," schools that are designed around one religion, like the Ben Gamla Charter School and Khalil Gibran, need to be organized, funded and run by a private organization, not the government. Further, I think that deciding to offer accommodations to one religion, while admirable, can be a sticky business that quickly gets out of control.
In short, controversial issues like HIV/AIDS, homosexuality, and religion should be discussed in classrooms to promote critical thinking and problem solving skills, tolerance, and acceptance. Overall, more needs to be done in these areas, and earlier rather than later. By the time children reach middle and high school, when many have decided they are "ready" for controversial issues, children's viewpoints are already pretty solid if not well defined. In order to adequately promote tolerance and acceptance, children need to be taught about these controversial issues when they are still very young, including answering their questions as they arise.
Another topic that I believe falls into the category of controversial is religious education in public schools. Now, obviously, private schools can do what they like on religion, and many parents choose to send their children to Catholic or Protestant private schools, in which prayer or mass are a daily part of the school routine. But what about in public schools? When I was in high school, one of my favorite classes was Religion and Philosophy. It was a one semester course, in which we discussed multiple types of philosophies and multiple religions. I felt this was a valuable use of my time and education, allowing me to thoughtfully consider other viewpoints. I feel that I am a much more considerate and tolerant person because I know a little about other religions.
As a non-Christian, I am definitely in favor of the separation of church and state, and would protest if prayer or Christian worship, or any worship, were required in public schools. But I would like to see even more education about religions in public schools, and not just the mainstream ones. This New York Times article, Universal Faith, explores the idea of "dual purpose," that is, things that can be used for secular and religious purposes. They discuss installing foot baths in a Michigan high school so Muslim students can wash their feet before their prayers. However, these foot baths are to be functional, utilitarian foot baths that anyone can use, unlike the "ornate ablution fountains like those outside mosques." The article claims that this is an example of dual purpose, but I don't think so. How many times did you wash your feet, in the middle of the school day, in high school? I never did.
Rather than looking for dual purpose, I think it comes down to equal accommodations. Accommodations can be made for religions, like the foot baths, if every religion is able to claim accommodations. And this is where I think we run into the problem, because our government can't decide to only endorse a few religions, or that certain ones don't count. If just one student wanted an accommodation for their obscure religion, if any accommodations are given for any religions, than that student has to be granted theirs.
So, while I think religions should definitely be taught about in schools, "Teaching religious ideas as an academic subject can, of course, be a prime example of dual use, since such ideas may be studied critically without embracing them," schools that are designed around one religion, like the Ben Gamla Charter School and Khalil Gibran, need to be organized, funded and run by a private organization, not the government. Further, I think that deciding to offer accommodations to one religion, while admirable, can be a sticky business that quickly gets out of control.
In short, controversial issues like HIV/AIDS, homosexuality, and religion should be discussed in classrooms to promote critical thinking and problem solving skills, tolerance, and acceptance. Overall, more needs to be done in these areas, and earlier rather than later. By the time children reach middle and high school, when many have decided they are "ready" for controversial issues, children's viewpoints are already pretty solid if not well defined. In order to adequately promote tolerance and acceptance, children need to be taught about these controversial issues when they are still very young, including answering their questions as they arise.
You mentioned students that have committed suicide because they were gay and bullied but how about students who are not gay and bullied? This is my biggest problem with designing curriculum strictly about not bullying gay individuals. To be honest a persons sexuality has no place in the classroom. What we should be teaching students is not to bully anyone regardless of their race, gender, religion, and/or sexual orientation. Which I think you were saying?
ReplyDeleteAs someone who was picked on for being a christian, I see the other side. Being gay in my home area is not an issue. I grew with several gay friends in my high school back in the 90s. However, being conservative or religious was always frowned upon. I cannot tell you how many times I was bullied for my beliefs.
As far as suicide, I had several friends who were not gay but harassed daily because they did not fit into the popular crowd. The pressure was too much and they saw death as the only answer.
The point I am trying to make is, the media, schools, and society in general need to stop focusing on one group when it comes to bullying. We are leaving so many kids uncared for and ignored. We need to look after one another and teach kids that no matter what someone's personal beliefs or sexual preference we are all human and feel pain. Maybe the way to do this is a simple project where students spend time learning about one of their classmates (someone they would never talk to otherwise)?
That's a good point, Sabrina. I was picked on for not being Christian. I think the point that was being made with this cycle is that we have all these lessons and efforts in place to not bully others based on race, religion, or gender, but homosexuality gets completely ignored in most schools. So while kids grow up learning that it's okay to be different in some respects, if you're different in others, those that aren't covered (like being homosexual), then it's not okay. So if we try to introduce students to all sorts of different possibilities, including race, religion, gender, sexuality, looks, sense of style, and anything else, and make a point of validating all of these differences, then hopefully they won't bully their classmates as much, whatever the reason.
DeleteI think I would go further than just a simple assignment. Have it be a long project that students have to work on together, highlighting how their families and backgrounds are similar and different, and presenting this to their peers. Kind of like an extended ice breaker, but one that required a bit more thought and effort. But then again, this could backfire as students resent the entire thing and pick on their hated partner even more. I'm not sure what the answer is, but doing nothing has certainly not worked.
Hi Ashley,
ReplyDeleteThanks for your post!
I appreciated the strong stance you took in the opening. I was, however, a bit shocked when I followed your link for Washington's 5th and 6th grade AIDS curriculum--258 pages!
While it's great to give teachers guidance on difficult issues, I have to worry about anything this long. What teacher would have time to read such a document? I know that I would be extremely resentful of any administrator who emailed me this and said "teach it."
This reminds me of the Montana example, which in my opinion, goes into far too much detail (the one specifying the types of penetration that are involved in different types of sex). I don't have a problem teaching any of this--I have a problem telling all teachers that all kids need to learn this.
It seems to me like another example of how we don't trust teachers to make curriculum in response to the needs of their individual students, their families and their communities!
I loved in the second half of the post where you switched gears over to religion. Great variation on our general themes. I'm very in favor of spiritual/religious education, especially that which focuses on the major world religions (all of them). One of my doc students did a dissertation on this topic, it was really great.
I think we are really in a pickle in the US, regarding this. Our calendar is totally built around Christian traditions and assumptions. If you want to take a few days out for Diwali, it's "extra." For Christmas, everyone gets time off. Giving everyone their holidays of choice off makes some sense, but is probably way too messy in practice!
I loved the article on "dual purpose." It reminds me of when we started to accommodate folks with disabilities, how that benefited everyone (that dip on the curb is good for strollers too!). I assume something similar might happen with the foot bath--we don't really know what good purpose it might yet serve.
However, I do seem the thrust of your slippery-slope argument.
Overall, I think a hospitable society should do whatever it can to accommodate as many diverse needs as it can. Of course, there must be a limit, a calculus regarding the nature and degree of the good. But I would want to give local institutions much freedom in that regard. Footbaths in Dearborn make great sense--less so, perhaps, in other places.
Thanks for a wonderful post!
Kyle